For many years, I Was Vehemently Against Dating Asian Guys—Even Though I’m Chinese

For many years, I Was Vehemently Against Dating Asian Guys—Even Though I’m Chinese

My boyfriend that is current is, but he’s one of many hardly any Asian males I’ve dated.

Growing up, I lived in a predominantly white city, that was one explanation that I didn’t date many Asian men—there simply weren’t numerous around in the first place. However it has also been partially about me. Within my teenagers and very early 20s, I happened to be vehemently against dating guys that are asian. When buddies attempted to set me personally up because of the one Chinese guy in primary college, as whenever we had been supposed to be because I became truly the only Chinese woman, we quickly became annoyed. As well as in senior high school, we really demonstrably keep in mind a number of dudes attempting to introduce us for their Asian friend while we had been looking forward to the coach after college 1 day. We scoffed and stepped away, irritated during the unspoken expectation that i ought to to my very own competition. 阅读更多